Notes on weddings, light, and the quietly important things.

I write here about photography, about what I notice at the weddings I photograph, and occasionally about living and working in Sitges. It’s not a tips blog. It’s more like a place to think out loud.

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How to Edit While Travelling or Send Images to Your Editor
Melissa Mayes Melissa Mayes

How to Edit While Travelling or Send Images to Your Editor

It is so important to be able to continue to work and edit client galleries even when I am not at my desk. And so it is important for me to continue to be able to work on the galleries seamlessly whilst travelling. These steps are the same steps you would also take if you are sending your galleries to an editor to work on as well. This post-processing process allows for me to efficiently work on galleries and delivery galleries on time regardless of my physical location.

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Exploring Wedding Styles: From Traditional to Themed, Find Your Perfect Celebration

Exploring Wedding Styles: From Traditional to Themed, Find Your Perfect Celebration

Discover the wedding style that speaks to your heart and sets the tone for your dream celebration. From classic traditions to adventurous elopements, explore a range of styles tailored to your unique love story.

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Telling Love Stories: How Documentary Style Wedding Photography Captures Authentic Emotion
Melissa Mayes Melissa Mayes

Telling Love Stories: How Documentary Style Wedding Photography Captures Authentic Emotion

In the world of wedding photography, a shift has emerged, one that pivots away from staged, posed snapshots towards a more immersive, storytelling approach. Couples today yearn for more than just picturesque scenes; they crave a tangible representation of their love story, an anthology of moments that encapsulate the raw and genuine emotions felt on their special day. Enter documentary style wedding photography, a captivating art form that transcends the conventional, focusing on candid, unscripted moments that encapsulate the essence of love and connection.

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FIND THE PERFECT WEDDING VENUE NEAR YOU: AN ULTIMATE GUIDE
Melissa Mayes Melissa Mayes

FIND THE PERFECT WEDDING VENUE NEAR YOU: AN ULTIMATE GUIDE

Looking for the perfect wedding venue can be an overwhelming task, but fear not! In this ultimate guide, I'll help you discover the ideal wedding venue near you. Whether you're dreaming of a rustic barn, an elegant ballroom, or a picturesque garden, I've got you covered.

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A COMPREHENSIVE GUIDE TO SEASONAL WEDDING FLOWERS IN THE UK

A COMPREHENSIVE GUIDE TO SEASONAL WEDDING FLOWERS IN THE UK

Embark on a floral journey with our Comprehensive Guide to Seasonal Wedding Flowers in the UK. Whether you're a blossoming flower enthusiast or a soon-to-be-wedded couple, discover the art of selecting blooms that align with the enchanting seasons. Elevate your wedding with the freshest and most vibrant flowers, creating a sustainable and visually stunning celebration. Explore expert tips, budget considerations, and a curated selection of flowers for spring, summer, autumn, and winter weddings. Let the natural beauty of each season inspire your dream wedding arrangements.

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THE REGENCY VS VICTORIAN WEDDING AESTHETIC

THE REGENCY VS VICTORIAN WEDDING AESTHETIC

Step into a world of timeless elegance as we delve into the enchanting realms of Regency (1811-1820) and Victorian (1837-1901) wedding aesthetics. Inspired by the opulence of Bridgerton, explore the fusion of history and modernity in fashion, colour palettes, floral arrangements, and tablescapes. Uncover the unique charm of each era and learn how to infuse your wedding with the romantic allure of Regency and Victorian elegance. Your journey to a truly memorable celebration begins here.

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PAULINA AND STEPHEN’S WEDDING AT LONDON ST PANCRAS RENAISSANCE HOTEL

PAULINA AND STEPHEN’S WEDDING AT LONDON ST PANCRAS RENAISSANCE HOTEL

What an incredible day for Paulina and Stephen at the London St Pancras Renaissance Hotel. This iconic building is one that I have always admired while heading to the station to catch my train home.

The London St Pancras Renaissance Hotel is a testament to the architectural marvels of the past. Originally opened in 1873 as the Midland Grand Hotel, it was designed by the famed architect Sir George Gilbert Scott. Its stunning Gothic Revival façade and intricate details have stood the test of time, making it one of London's most iconic landmarks.

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HOSTING YOUR WEDDING AT PRINCESS DIANA’S CHILDHOOD HOME
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HOSTING YOUR WEDDING AT PRINCESS DIANA’S CHILDHOOD HOME

Experience the allure of royalty at Althorp House, Princess Diana's childhood home, now available for rent for your dream wedding. This historic English estate, nestled in West Northamptonshire, offers a majestic backdrop for your special day. With lavish interiors, sprawling grounds, and exclusive amenities, it's the perfect venue to create cherished memories and celebrate in regal style.

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PICKING YOUR DREAM TEAM: UNVEILING RULES AND TIPS FOR CHOOSING YOUR WEDDING PARTY
Melissa Mayes Melissa Mayes

PICKING YOUR DREAM TEAM: UNVEILING RULES AND TIPS FOR CHOOSING YOUR WEDDING PARTY

Your wedding day is a milestone in your life's story, a chapter you wish to share with cherished souls. The ones standing by your side on this significant day will traverse the journey with you. Therefore, choosing your wedding party is a decision that requires thoughtfulness and consideration. Here are essential rules to guide you in selecting the perfect bridesmaids and groomsmen.

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WHAT TIMELINE IS IDEAL FOR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY?
Melissa Mayes Melissa Mayes

WHAT TIMELINE IS IDEAL FOR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY?

Every wedding will be different, especially when considering cultural aspects. Each wedding photographer may also have varying degrees to what is best for your timeline. However, I have outlined what I feel you can expect on a wedding day if you are having full coverage and want each moment captured. I have created this timeline not only as my experience as a wedding photographer but also from my experience working for other wedding photographers.

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WHEN SHOULD I SEND WEDDING INVITATIONS

WHEN SHOULD I SEND WEDDING INVITATIONS

A wedding is one of the most memorable events in a couple's life. Planning the big day can be an exciting, yet overwhelming task, and one of the most critical parts is sending out wedding invitations. In England, UK, there are some essential factors to consider when deciding when to send out wedding invitations. In this article, we will discuss all the essential details about sending out wedding invitations.

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MY TOP TIPS FOR A CALM WEDDING MORNING!

MY TOP TIPS FOR A CALM WEDDING MORNING!

My past bridal experience has taught me just how confusing and hectic the lead-up to your wedding day can be. I have been there - it's very overwhelming leading up to the big day, and before you know it, you're getting up on your wedding day anxious and thrilled. People are coming and going, there's a deadline to meet, and with all your feelings about the day, it's simple to become overwrought. To help you prepare for your wedding day and make it as relaxed, fun, and chill as possible, I've compiled my top tips for a calm wedding morning. It's worth bookmarking this list!

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STYLING KITS FOR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHERS

STYLING KITS FOR WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHERS

A wedding photography styling kit is a collection of items that are used to enhance and elevate the imagery of unique wedding day details. These items can include decorative, beautiful and practical objects that photographers use to make the wedding day images more visually appealing.

Styling kits are usually used during the early morning of the wedding day when the bride and groom are getting ready, but they can be used at any time when photographing objects such as tablescapes during the reception.

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WHAT IS FINE ART PHOTOGRAPHY?

WHAT IS FINE ART PHOTOGRAPHY?

Fine art wedding photography is a style of photography that focuses on capturing the emotions, story and beauty of a wedding day in an artful and intentional way. The photographer approaches the day with a clear vision in mind, and uses their skills and expertise to create a cohesive set of images that tell the story of the day. They pay attention to every detail, carefully considering the composition, lighting and color in each frame. The result is a set of photographs that are not just snapshots of the day, but works of photographic art that are worthy of an art gallery. This style of photography is different from traditional event coverage, as the focus is on producing the most intentional, refined and consistent images possible while also preserving the genuine joy, romance and emotion of the day

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HOW TO THROW THE PERFECT GARDEN WEDDING - 15 TIPS

HOW TO THROW THE PERFECT GARDEN WEDDING - 15 TIPS

Throwing a garden wedding can be a beautiful and intimate way to celebrate your special day. From the ceremony to the reception, there are many details to consider when planning the perfect garden wedding. Here are 15 tips to help you plan the perfect garden wedding at your home.

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FIKA TIME: SWEDISH CHOKLADBOLLAR
Melissa Mayes Melissa Mayes

FIKA TIME: SWEDISH CHOKLADBOLLAR

This is not my usual post but I get asked for this recipe so much here that I thought I should just make it a little. easier and give it a home on my website.

It is no surprise to anyone that knows me: I love all things Swedish. Discovering the joys of Swedish chokladbollar during my fika days living in Sweden became a daily habit. However, indulging almost daily led me to search for a healthier alternative. So I made a healthier version that’s super easy to create and doesn’t contain any sugar or butter.

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HOW TO USE PIXIESET TO VIEW AND SHARE YOUR WEDDING PHOTOS
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HOW TO USE PIXIESET TO VIEW AND SHARE YOUR WEDDING PHOTOS

WHAT IS PIXIESET?

Pixieset is a platform that allows you to view and share your wedding day photos with ease. The platform offers a gallery that is accessible on desktop computers, laptops, and mobile phones. You can also order professional quality prints from your gallery and download single images to share on social media.

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WE JUST GOT ENGAGED, NOW WHAT?

WE JUST GOT ENGAGED, NOW WHAT?

Congratulations! You’re officially engaged and it’s time to start planning your wedding. Before you dive into the details, take some time to just be happy together. This is one of the most exciting times of your life, and it’s really important to take a step back and just enjoy the moment. Even if you feel like you’re ready to jump into wedding planning, you’ll thank yourself later for taking the time to just soak in this moment.

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HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR FAVOURITE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY STYLE!

HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR FAVOURITE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHY STYLE!

Are you struggling to narrow down what photography style you love? Choosing a wedding photographer can be tricky, but learning about their different photography styles can help. Here is a comprehensive summary of all the wedding photography styles out there.

Every couple has different style preferences, from clothing to décor. Choosing a wedding photographer is one of the most significant stylistic decisions. Before you contact your prospective photographers, you should determine what wedding photography style you are drawn to. If you book first and learn about the style later, you may end up with photos that don’t match your vision.

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