EXPLORING WEDDING STYLES: FROM TRADITIONAL TO THEMED, FIND YOUR PERFECT CELEBRATION
So maybe you're knee-deep in wedding plans and feeling a bit overwhelmed, take a deep breath – I have some tips and advice for you! As a wedding photographer, I've been behind the lens for all sorts of celebrations, and let me tell you, there's so many different types that suit all different couples. So, grab a cup of coffee and let's look at the different wedding styles that exist to figure out what works for you!
Traditional Weddings: Embracing the Timeless
A traditional wedding is like the cornerstone of classic celebrations—it's got that predictable yet charming format we all know and love. Picture this: ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, often rooted in religious or cultural customs. Think exchanging vows in a church, temple, or mosque, followed by the classic rituals: the first dance, cake cutting, and that epic bouquet toss. It's that black-tie affair where everyone brings their A-game with floor-length gowns and dapper tuxedos.
Best for: If tradition's your jam or you're tying the knot with a nod to culture or religion, this one's a keeper. But, hey, make sure it vibes with your vibe, you know? Have a heart-to-heart with your partner to check if it clicks.
Planning Pointers: Tradition often comes with certain financial etiquettes. Traditionally, the bride's family shoulders most costs, but it's becoming more common for both sets of parents to contribute or sometimes for the couple to pay. Money talk can be awkward, but it saves stress down the line.
Let's keep it flowing with the other wedding styles, adding a touch of your relaxed style.
Destination Weddings: Say "I Do" with a View
Destination weddings aren't just about jet-setting to some exotic location. It's wherever you're not currently calling home. Picture beachside bashes in Mexico or chic warehouse vibes in Chicago. Since it's a trek for guests, it's usually a weekend affair—rehearsal dinner, welcome party, and all that jazz.
Ideal Duo: Wanderlusters, unite! If exploring new places or sharing your special spot with your squad is on your wishlist, this one's the ticket. Plus, laid-back peeps who aren't hung up on meeting vendors in person—this is your gig.
Pro Tips: Pop over for a visit pre-wedding; it's like a dress rehearsal but for venues. And trust is key—go for vendors you vibe with since it's mostly a remote collab.
Wedding Weekends: Stretching the Celebration
Picture this: not just one day but a whole weekend of love and laughter. You've got the rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, and brunch—maybe even more, depending on your hosting prowess. Smaller guest lists, but no strict size rules here.
Perfect Match: If you're the social butterfly or love playing host, this is your playground. It's for couples who want an unforgettable, extended bash. Just a heads-up: more events mean more moolah.
Hack Alert: Budget smart—spreadsheets are your friends. Plus, there are savvy ways to save cash, like snagging second-hand dresses or repurposing décor.
Small Weddings: Intimate, All About the Feels
These are cosy affairs with your nearest and dearest—30 to 60 people max. Think of it as the VIP list for your big day. Shorter timelines, simpler plans, and a more relaxed vibe.
Ideal Couples: Introverts or those who prefer quality over quantity, this is your sweet spot. Plus, if you're gunning for a super special, luxe experience, fewer heads mean more splurge on details.
Planning Hack: Trim that guest list thoughtfully—aunty drama's real. And don't let the small scale fool you—wedding planners are VIPs here too.
Elopements: For the Adventurous Romantics
Small weddings, but on turbo mode—just the two of you (sometimes a witness or two) in a super intimate affair. It's that spontaneous, unplanned romance in scenic spots.
Perfect Match: Reserved couples or thrill-seekers who'd rather share vows away from the limelight. If spontaneity's your jam or you're the modern type shunning tradition, elopements are your jam.
Top Tip: Even low-key elopements need some planning. Sort out travel, ceremony bits, and ponder if you'll throw a bash later for friends and family.
Courthouse Weddings: Quick & Chic Downtown Vibes
Think quick, efficient, and chic—tying the knot at city hall, low on fuss, high on efficiency. It's you, your partner, and maybe a handful of close folks.
Best Bet: No-fuss couples who dig efficiency—this is like the express lane to wedded bliss. You can even do private vows here—shy folks, rejoice!
Don't Forget: Snap up a photographer—even simple weddings need snaps for the memory bank.
Themed Weddings: Let Your Imagination Run Wild
Unleash your inner creative with themes galore! It's all about creating a unique experience, from Bridgerton-inspired bashes to celestialcore soirées.
Ideal Pair: If you're itching for an offbeat celebration that screams YOU, themed weddings are a canvas. But hey, details, details—hire a planner to make that vision pop.
Golden Rule: Choose a theme that's authentically YOU, not just trendy. And when you're in the groove, lean on the planner—they're the real MVPs here.
Alright, lovebirds, whatever style you choose, make sure it reflects you and your partner. It's your day, your love story – so own it. Happy planning!
